I just now finally figure what my problem was and fixed it... before uploading images (dragging and dropping them in), I made sure there were no parenthesis, spaces, brackets or any other wierd characters in the file names. So I replaced all spaces and parenthesis with underscores (like this "_") and then re-added them, then poof, all my thumbnails showed up finally! :D
When I first tried to fix it, I reduced my image sizes to 800x480 or so... but that didn't actually seem to be the difference. It was the file names that actually caused it for me.
THANK YOU SO MUCH! You have just become my new favorite person on Steemit! LOL! I just changed my filenames, too, and it seemed to have worked! Now ALL of my posts have thumbnails! I so appreciate your sharing what you did to fix the problem! 😊
So glad your problem is fixed too @thekittygirl, time to celebrate!!! :D