The best thing about Steem is when you discuss the 'Hard Fork' their is no panic or real contention. I love BTC but the fees and transaction time are crazy nowadays but as soon as someone mentions sorting it out with a soft or hard fork its like you insulted someones mum and you get a pile of abuse.
hahaha, yes so very true, graphene tech is much different because there is voting and there is delegated witnesses to act on everyone's behalf, it's easier to get 20 people to come to an agreement.
Absolutely, I'm very enthusiastic on Graphene for the reasons you stated. It's also easier to do forks and such when you have such a strong community with a built-in feedback system(s)