"Let's all grow together the right way". I'm a newbie to this community (started 4 days ago) and I'm having a hard time having my posts get noticed so here I am trying to learn from other people's posts. I totally agree with you that it's not just about upvoting and getting upvoted. Because you would forget others; their posts and even their names. ( I already did unfortunately). Thank you for this post and I will bear in mind AND PUT INTO PRACTICE what you said in here.