REAL TALK-Strong Women Are Often The Most Insecure, Here Is Why

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Strong women are ladies who doesn't compromise on their standards and values.They know what is best for them and what is not,and they will make sure the latter doesn't happen.A more reason they doesn't tolerate or take it kindly with people who spread toxicity.

Friends and associate try to bring her down by accusing her of having high standards.But the truth is,in reality she is just trying to protect herself that is why she doesn't have time for guys who doesn't value and respect her.She doesn't give others the priviledge of bringing her down...

She gives herself high expectations,she knows that she has what it takes to reach greater height and she will do anything to get there.The fact is she is a human with her own limitations.She screams at herself when she performs below expectations.

She get worried and traumatized when her progress doesn't correspond with her goals.Nothing get her excited because she find ways to better herself and improve herself daily.She is never stagnant.

Because she expect much from herself,so also get scared easily.but she doesn't let this insecurities becomes visible,she has master the act of hiding her fears deep within her.

When she feel defeated and discouraged,words from her friends wi mean so much to her.those words will become her strength unknown to them because they feel that she has it all.

And this friends are damn so lucky because she is very selective.they have her love and affections.she knows their likes and dislikes.
And she is always over protective of her friends.
But it can be so tiring to look after so many people and then herself. No wonder she feels drained.But yet she never gives up,she gives without limitations.And yet find it within herself the energy and passion to pursue her goals.
She doesn't let her fear hold her down,she strives in being a better version of herself always.

That is why she keeps moving on,even when she is not sure of success.
Her determination is always the reason why she succeed.She knows what her limits her and she will keep working at it till she overcome them.She never welcomes mediocrity because she knows she deserves the best.And she works so hard till she achieve it.

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I think you broke this down well. Because of the goal to be practically perfect and high self-awareness of where your progress is at, it is easier to spot flaws in oneself than for those that aren't working as hard on their goals. The high standards for others can also make life lonely and increase the insecurity. However, these women also tend to have more high quality relationships rather than high quantity of relationships.
Perfectionism is both a blessing and a curse in this way. I think Vince Lombardi puts it well, "Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence."