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RE: How Prepared Are You For The Coming Crash?

in #steemit7 years ago

For me, the crash of 2007/2008 was my real wake up call. It was during this period that my wife and I reevaluated life broadly. Since then, we've approached things very differently. For us, the 2007/8 crisis was more of a symptom than the disease, a symptom we finally were able to recognize with clear eyes. For us, it wasn't only a failing financial system, it was the recognition of a wobbling culture. The American economic system is over financialized, however, I think the general American sentiment of how life is to be lived is over financialized as well.

People view success primarily through a lens of financial value. People buy larger houses than they need, more expensive cars than they need, more material bullshit than they need. They express their own personal value as a human oftentimes in monetary terms. A job is only sought after for how much fiat it pays. Debt is of no concern. Most people rarely consider the politics or broader impact of the decisions they make, meaning people will buy things from large corporations that actively (as a function of their business) go against the very basic interests of the person buying their products. I don't see that a majority of people look at the human experience in its entirety (and with a historical perspective) and rationalize typical behaviors of the day...why people do what they do, who is influencing them, what their best interests are, and what the impact of their decisions happen to be.

So (without going on forever here :), our lifestyle change has been very broad. Yes, we have a very diverse asset base (@dandesign86, you mention lots of good assets :). Yes, we have a deep pantry (and use it like a grocery store, rotating the new with the old...not the deep bunker type of doomsday food storage thing) and could live for several months without going to the store should a huge economic or weather-related disaster hit. Yes, we have eliminated all debt. But, just as important, we have detached ourselves from a financialized existence. We only buy things we truly want or need. We don't buy from most corporations unless there are no alternatives and we need the thing that shitty corp is selling. We learned about the food system and the correlated health system and substantially modified our interactions with both. We take much better care of our privacy and selectively choose which technologies we engage and avoid those that we believe are not healthy relationships (I'm looking at you Amazon, Google, etc). Ultimately we are trying to create a life experience that is not based on consumption-driven happiness, but more driven by an awareness of the realities of the world - many of the existing systems (economic, health, food, etc) are not designed to act in our best interests and it is up to us to be behave in very educated/intentional ways so as not to be chewed up and spit out by the systems, systems that are primarily designed to improve both the power and wealth of those who architect and manage them in the first place.

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That's probably the most on point comment I ever got so thank you a lot for sharing that experience and I am happy to see how something so terrible in the end has allowed to inspire such a great change.

I always differentiate between want and need. I'm so sick of materialism that it feels like a dish you had too many times and you're just sick of it already. I moved to China 15 years ago and in the beginning I was buying things constantly because I felt it was so cheap here. In the end though it felt like a huge weight on my shoulders and it became like quicksand pulling me down. It was not until a few years ago though that I was able to get rid of the excessive things at home. I either gave it away or donated it and it feels really nice. Like traveling with a back pack instead of pulling two heavy suitcases behind you .

A very apt analogy, "a dish you had too many times and you're just sick of it already". Differentiating between want and need is so utterly critical at this point in our "abundant" (for Westerners at least) phase of human existence.

Interesting, your mention of moving to China and the revelation it produced. My wife and I moved, in a desire to try something new, to Australia a decade ago. We stayed for a couple years, then moved back to the US but before doing so we traveled around the world for 9 months on a shoestring budget. These non-material experiences were absolutely pivotal in reshaping how we saw the world. When we arrived back in the US and financial crisis hit soon thereafter, it just seemed obvious. All this material bullshit, all these things have no value when compared to the experience you can extract out of life; interactions with people, first-hand learning about the myriad cultures in the world, finding some secluded beach in the middle of nowhere and pondering existence, our reason for being here, and what you want to make out of life. In the wordaday world, you get trapped in the echochamber of a particular culture/way of living/being. If that localized culture is vacuous, self-unaware, hyper-materialized and egotistical, well, how does that influence a person?

I guess the point is that everyone needs to travel/experience things that stimulate their imagination and pull them down a path of exploration/education as opposed to being pulled down the path of "my lawn is greener than yours, my car is newer than yours, my house is larger than yours". That car will serve you for about 8 years, that trek along Annapurna will shape how you relate to every subsequent experience you have in life until the day you die. Which has more value? Which one provides a greater life experience?

Thanks for bringing this topic up...when the larger system falters, all sorts of interesting lines of inquiry emerge!

What Is happiness and success is something subjective that only we can answer, still people listen to the materialistic voices that try to convince us that happiness will be accomplished by the next thing we buy

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