yes we all make our choices, and our excuses. My wife and I still go and do a lot of things, but we are mostly homebodies, and while I think it would be nice to visit and immerse in other countries and cultures, I just don't like to travel much. I am a great armchair traveler though. Even at the age we are approaching and being retired we have moved a few times, we will one day find where we want to be and restart a garden. Until then it is explore what we can close to home.