You don't blame anyone? Then why ask demeaning and condescending and otherwise patronizing questions that basically say that it was his fault for trusting kaliji? What kind of question is "why did you trust him?" And the comment that you responded with to my remark on your question doesn't blame anyone for "trusting people that didn't deserve trust"?
The root of the problem isn't with haejin. You can keep implying again and again that he "failed by trusting someone not performing all nessesary checks, it’s your fault." or that it was his fault for trusting him, all you're doing is excusing the theft. You didn't acknowledge how and why you had absolutely no excuse for the condescending query, or for the other condescending remark about "a lot of letters" and now again for this nonsensical "the problem lies with oneself because otherwise how can you find a solution within yourself if you don't put the root of the problem within yourself" which you preface with the audaciously nonsense "I didn't pass blame on anyone, OR say theft isn't theft" and until you correct those things you'll simply be regarded by me as just another person without any decency or dignity.
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