"nice post, follow me"

Unfortunately I believe am guilty of this at the beginning. But later on I feel that seriously I'm better off just engaging people's post and share what I think of it.

It's only going to be toxic if everyone shouts "do me a favor!!" and communications are all 1 way. I've seen communities go down that road and boy it ain't pretty!

Thanks for sharing your advise and experience, of course I'd never think "owh so you think you're a big shot" about you or anyone who gives good advise, regardless if whether that person is or isn't an actual big shot. In fact it's much sadder that there are people with real helpful advise through experience but never shared it because they think they aren't "qualified" enough. And so the community losses one potentially impactful lesson.