I cannot do nothing to make you happy despite of what is happening to your family specially to your dad. But I want to share to you the word of God in Romans 8:28 it says that "but we know all things work together for good to those who love God and to those who are called according to His purpose. All things work together for your good Terry. I declare peace and restoration and blessing be upon your family and to all decision making that you will do. Cheer up buddy.