Mmh, this is deep, this real stealth writing and i can say from this that..
The outcome of your life is totally your responsibility
The tending of the garden just as God told Adam to do in Eden is our responsibility, no one else. So sulking, blaming and complaining about the weeds won't do us any good.
It is up to us to get the weeds out which comes in various sizes and depth, we need to understand and employ the skill most necessary for a kind of weed(challenge).
After all is done, our garden(our lives) can now actually thrive. God bless you @sirknight