One of the major way satan gets so many youths today is through ungodly relationships. How can one stay pure when dating a person he or she truly loves? As a lady, is there anything wrong with having sex with the person that has promise to marry you? Can I say yes to sex now? All these are the questions going through the mind of many youths today.
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Before we answer these questions, let us take a closer at the word courtship, it can simply be defined as the time gap between the day a brother and sister decides to get married and the day they actually got married.
As Christians, during this period, the brother and sisters are expected to remain pure until their wedding night, but in our present world, people now see it as a leverage to get involve in sexual immoralities.
To avoid falling into sexual immoralities while dating, you must be able to put some certain things into consideration. Some of which are:
- Avoid tempting situations
- Set your limit
- Dress modestly
- Develop self-discipline and self-control (proverb 25:28)
- Work more on your relationship with God
- Watch your thought
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This has really become a trend in the world today, let us flee every appearance of evil, till marriage there should not be alone time!
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Very true... Premarital sex is bad for Christians
sexually transmitted diseases
have reached an unprecedented level.
Because of Premarital sex.
Evil generation.
But the children of God will always seekthe light .
That’s absolutely right, as a husband, father and pastor and still young man, I know what’s going in your head before marriage, thanks to our Lord for helping me to keep myself on his way, I your list you can add A mentor to talk with, that was a great help for me before marriage. Stay blessed, greetings from Venezuela.