Been seeing a lot of people bitching about stuff lately in Discord. People gotta realize that as much as we want Steemit to be a utopia, it's still going to reflect the old world in many ways. It's an evolution, but expecting everyone to act civil here, not cheat, and not be dicks...that's a lot. People are going to use bots, upvote themselves, and rape the reward pool if they can. People are also going to give and give and give to each other in an attempt to help...so, there's balance here. Gotta decide for yourself what to focus on, and, like you said in this post, look at the reasons you're hear and what's realistically possible. :)