When I first started here I had a rather bleak view of life and the Steemit. It was nothing more than an online diary for me where I can remove my mask, bitch around and feel dejected.

It didn't help that the first group I had here was pretty negative. They would be all praises and gratitude to a certain whale but when she started not upvoting their content thet got nasty and personally commenting about her looks and weight that they only acted friendly.

I got out there quick. That negativity and bitterness was too much even for me.

December was my birthday and my rebirth. I was a changed person who still had the darkness but hope was shining forth as well.

My first two months went by so fast and in a state of catatonic drifting. Upon rebirth last month until now because of the change in attitude I have doubled the number of engagers I have on my posts. I have become active in going around and giving good comments.

I started educating and mentoring new people and it is deeply fulfilling. I find that succeeds here are those that build lasting relationships and promote good community spirit.

Those that are humanitarian in outlook gain influence and followers. It's about respect, positivity and good manners that makes us trust each other.

Sure there disputes, flag wars going on right now but generally the population are hopeful and kind. This is what's going to work in a gift economy.

Here nice guys don't finish last.