I am a newbie to Steemit, but I completely agree with your post. It can be enticing to take the "easy way" and use automated services to build the artificial connection. I have yet to post any content, but will be uploading some videos to dtube and posting some of my writing very soon.
I look forward to seeing the transition of my account go from the current 10 fake user followers to actually building an authentic following!
Thanks for the sharing the post.
Welcome and good luck :)