I just assumed everyone was getting space aids and leaving because they were lame. Quite a few times in my life I’ve seen people leave to chance after “better opportunity elsewhere.” Then a year later they drag there sorry behind back and try and act like they did not give everyone the middle finger while calling them all losers because they never expected to see them again. That is when they learn the community despite how self-important that person thought they were moved on without them. Even if they were welcome back it usually never lasted long.