"I wish I had spent more time at the office". Go spend more time with your family now, they won't be around forever and they need you NOW! Family generally lash out when they are hurting and needing your attention. Lack of real communication is usually the root of trouble and strife, and it can be difficult to communicate through a closed office door. The only time I truly regret is when I put that one last email or post ahead of my family. I wish you peace.Thanks for your honesty @aggroed, and yeah the hurt can often open you up some. Sounds like you need to let that bank of work pile a little higher for now, to allow yourself to physically, mentally and emotionally recover from the turmoil. As many of the other comments have expressed, nobody ever looked back at their life and said