Hi @papa-pepper. I am also still fairly new and still trying to build a following.
I think what some of the newer users get disappointed by is spending lots of time on a post and then only receiving very small amount of views and small payouts.

I think what you said about genuine comments definitely helps to get people to notice you more.

My payouts are still small and my writing still need lots of work, but I have definitely started noticing a difference in the amount of views I am receiving.

During my time here I have also been on a off sometimes due to real life and work keeping me busy but trying to post more regular. But I do think interaction is key to success on Steemit.

Thank you for all the great work you are doing for the community.