Where we are today for most persons are not where they wished to be buh life situations and trauma put them in such positions and also their lacadasical behaviour and reactions place them in where they are today.
We still give thanks to God all the time for life and the breath of life. In all situations we find ourselves, we should not relent buh strive to achieve great things and live were we are presently. A poor man today is a rich man tomorrow because he didnt relent but work hard. But we should understand that all these helps one grow in where him/her was weak.
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