The game of any sports is all about winning but in the end only one would win it eventually so one must give up not really because if you don't play to win it you are not playing it at all.
Sports is something that will carry your anger emotions and feeling on to the next level it builds you over time and it novitiates you to do better as a character it builds you it strengthens you.
The goal of everyone should be winning but its your action that will decide the fate and that where lot of defeats are found if one can win every time they may get over confidence with time but if one is losing and know the real reason behind they can over come their own failures.
Failures are the best teacher and what better than that in sports which teach you to try hard and smart to beat the rest.
Never ever give up because there will always be another chance !!!
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Goes back to the age-old saying, "the best way to learn is from your mistakes."