thanks! and I agree, if it is preventing you from living the life you want, you should find a way to get through it. I definitely get nervous from all of those things too. I usually go to the bathroom and go over what I'm going to say in my head a few times haha (medium black coffee please..what a difficult order!) and still manage to fumble because i'm too nervous lol. so no shame. i don't try as hard as I should either, usually ask whoever i'm with to help me, but the more you do it the easier it gets :)