Today, July 17, 2022, is my Dad’s birthday. He would have been 89 today.
I lost my Dad in February 2020. He died right before the mess of the pandemic. The pandemic and lockdowns would have been very hard on him.
My Dad and I had a strained relationship when I was young. I was very independent and strong-willed; of course, at that age, I believed that my dad did not understand my problems.
But over the years, we became very close.
This picture is from our last vacation together. We spent 4 days in Cape Cod, Mass.
My Dad was a tool and die maker by trade, which made him very meticulous no matter the project.
Over time, he taught me to be more of a perfectionist in anything I do.
He also taught me a good work ethic. I would see him go to work regardless of how he was feeling, and he would push through the day.
My Dad was never wealthy, but he was awesome at managing his finances and living within his means. This was another lesson that he taught me.
In his later years, we would talk for hours about pretty much anything. He was always there to offer his advice and counsel whenever I faced an issue or situation.
This is one of the things I miss most. Whenever I encounter an issue or dilemma, I instinctively reach out to call my Dad and then quickly realize that is no longer possible.
Happy Birthday, Dad. I love you and miss you.
Until next time,
John Novak
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Such a BEAUTIFUL post dad! Thank you for making me cry! Love you so much and miss Grandpa to pieces! He was such an awesome man- and became even more loving to everyone around him in his later years! He would be so proud of the amazing dad and grandpa you have become!
Thanks, Kelly
Looks like he was a good dad! It is good to hear that towards the end, both of you had a strong connection.
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Sounds like your father was a great and wise man. Sorry to read about your loss, but also happy to read that he didn't experience the pandemic situation. I think it's been very very hard on the elderly without any visits possible. I feel sad whenever I read about someone at age being very lonely due to the pandemic. At least he didn't have to go through that but I'm sure that doesn't make you miss him less.
Thankfully memories will last!
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Your dad sounds great and glad you became close over the years. I had a similar relationship with my mum - at loggerheads when I was young and then good friends in later life. I missed her, too, for a long time. There were some things that I only ever talked about with her. I marvel often that she brought up six children and worked full-time for all but eight years. I'm not sure how she did it.
That's a lovely photo of you and your Dad. I hope you have a day of good memories.
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I come from a family of six as well.
Very nice tribute, John! It sounds like he was quite the guy! It's great that you were able to mend that relationship over time.
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This is a great tribute to grandpa, dad! And I am so glad your relationship mended and grew over the years!😘 love you!!
Thanks, Katie. I love you too.
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Your father sounds an awesome man. Happy Birthday to him
Thanks, @farmboy-boss. He really was.
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STOPSorry to hear about the loss of your father, John. But you're right, sounds like the pandemic would have been so hard for him. Whatever happened in our younger days, it's great to have the problems reconciled with our parents later in life. I think this is a wonderful story, thank you. And it's a great photo!
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Thank you, Ray. I really appreciate your feedback.
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This was his time, and our own parents time. This should not happen to our kiddos! Work ethic is important, but one's health is more important than that.
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You are absolutely right, @drlobes
My dad used to say that you don't appreciate your health until you lose it.
Finding employees with a good work ethic is very difficult these days.
Thanks for the comment. I appreciate it.
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A very touching tribute John. I am happy for you that you reconciled with your father and had some close time together.
Thanks, Steve. I appreciate that.
We got along well for the past number of years.
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wow my heart melted ! what a beautiful relationship!😍
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he would be proud of you wherever he is, don't miss him much but keep making him proud and teach his legacy to your children and grandkids
Thanks, Burl. I appreciate the feedback.
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Condolences for the loss of your dad. Looks like you're keeping his memory alive with your tribute.
Small world. A family member was in the local chapter of IAMAW for over 30 years before retiring. Nice career.
Thanks for sharing.
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I think it is fantastic that you and your dad were so close. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks, Bob. I appreciate the comment.
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