What´s SEXY and What´s NOT

in #sexy7 years ago

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WHO or WHAT decides what’s sexy?

TIRED of listening and reading that a woman who appears to be showing some parts of her body in pictures is a whore, is fat or has a lack of attention. Sexy does not mean sex. The rapist culture works like this: they insinuate that it´s possible that someone deserves to be harassed, assaulted or violated; That its ok for another person to humiliate, shame or abuse. Well, IT DOESN’T WORK LIKE THAT. Learn to be happy with what you have, and if you don’t like it, change it, but don´t go around imposing your thoughts and negative comments to others, they are only yours.

I think that sexy is a woman that feels secure of herself, accepts her body as it is and feels self-love. And if she doesn’t even have this three things, she ALSO is. In a world where everyone would like the same, we would be all dressed a like, we wouldn’t have anything that makes us unique (We would get into fights trying to find a couple).

EVERYONE is sexy. I won´t say that you HAVE to like yourself but it would be AWESOME.

I’m conscious that not everybody will like my body or my face, but I LOVE MY SELF AS I AM! I wouldn’t change anything; you know why? Because if I change I wouldn’t be ME.

I consider myself the least sexy, but do I have the absolute truth? We should live and let live, everyone with their own preferences, likes and ideas. The trick is to learn to accept that we are all different, open our minds and don’t go around speaking bad or criticizing others. It´s all about being confident and being healthy.

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