I think there is tremendous value in just allowing a bond of trust to for without strict rules about how relationships have to be. It doesn’t mean taking advantage of every freedom, but I find my relationships are much stronger because neither person is exerting pressure on the other to stay and yet both people stay. I think when most people imagine this kind of freedom they imagine everyone going around fucking everything with legs, when that is not the case for many mature adults. Are we truly mature adults though? We can do our best but our upbringings will still influence us.

Responsibility to our own desires doesn’t mean disregarding others. When we are truly in an abundance mentality, we will not be happy to leave someone struggling with our children. Once again this is all very idealistic stuff and as far as I’m concerned it’s judt a direction to move in, not something we should force on ourselves or others.