I see what you’re saying. Could it be that fidelity is the way we’ve been conditioned to live. Movies tell us what we want in relationships, tv sways our opinion too. Culturally there are vast differences of what is acceptable and not acceptable as well. Perhaps we’ve been taught to be insecure. Maybe it’s a human thing too, how many species are solely attached to one life mate, not many. I’m not judging either or, it’s just interesting to step back and see it on a larger scale. I agree with your view on openness to create stronger bonds rather than ruling the relationship by rules and fear.
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I think what really matters is a bond of trust. Fidelity can help with that but unconditional love does a much better job. The problem is not fidelity itself but the focus on fidelity as the most essential factor in a relationship. Either way it’s good to question all this, even if we don’t make an big changes to our lives.
Well said and definitely agree with you
It’s progressive to stay open minded