I like you telling the truth from your life. I'm a voyeur so I really, really, really appreciate you.
I know what you're talking about as I have experienced what you describe. I would add, however two things (since you and I are deciding to be radically honest on this platform, and I've already spilled my guts, so many times)
- Some women (me) enjoy dominating men as well as being dominated. (not in S&M way, but in a way of psychologically-charged games). I'm really tall and a bit muscular, so it has been no problem for me to physically dominate certain guys.
- This next thing is more of a tip for women: next time you have intercourse with a man, rub your own throbbing clitoris until you reach orgasm while you're having vaginal sex. I only started doing this at age 35. A lot of women don't have a true orgasm with only vaginal sex. There's a lot of faking orgasm in order to protect the fragile male ego. I faked orgasms a lot before I discovered tending to my own little throbbing beast. Rubbing yourself with your own finger ensures that you can orgasm at nearly the same time as the man. Sex done this way is like 100000% better.
And one last thing. Something I personally enjoy but that is really hard to pull off is looking at someone for long periods of time without making any moves. It's torture, but the sex after this silent torture is like snorting 100 lines of coke. It looks like this: