I found this article refreshing, which surprised me. Sex is over-rated in the sense that it can be a burden more than a pleasure, even if the burden is hidden. There's also a high cost of sex for everyone, whether male or female it all evens out in the bigger picture. As I get older I see sex is not cat all about care-free fun or escapism. I think pornography has lead to the impression that physical sex should also be an escape or relief from everyday life...yet it's not, because 'real' physical sex is the second most 'real' thing (to human exeperience,/phenomena) next to pain-suffering.