Some wise man said "Sex is the one thing that is actually free."
But it doesn't have to be so important, or doesn't have to be so weighty.
For the Bonobo's it's something casual.
If people don't want to rush into sex, that's cool.

Off-topic i think we should have a 60's/70's revival, to much love out there that's commercialised, too much an end to a needs. And seemingly we are moving into more puritan times?