I thoroughly, thoroughly enjoyed reading this. So much so that it aroused me slightly.
I also think that one thing you failed to mention was that the reverse is true also, women expecting their partners to know what they want and get frustrated internally when they don't - all my past relationships were total flops. Only my [now] wife played the long game, trained me, allowed me to grow and learn for myself. In turn I will pass this onto my son, who will hopefully be super respectful to his partner.
There is a lot to be said about conquering your partners body. A lovely way to put it
I'm glad you enjoyed it. The cliche is women want men to understand them and "read their minds" becuase sex for them is about intimacy and emotion, not just body movements. My wife and I talk about this, and sometimes the challenge is she doesn't know what she wants. She trusts me to discover it for her and what worked yesterday might flop today. It can be very frustrating for both partners, but it can also be looked at as a journey with no final destination. Getting there and figuring it out is the fun. :)
Ah, this is truly the way to live life. Not just in sex mind you :)