But it is. Romance did not exist 900 years ago. It might be the norm today but it wasn't in the past. People had sex. They understood only lust. Romance more or less is a form of manipulation and hypocrisy. You choose to act a certain way that you know the other will appreciate. It is more or less like theater.
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history is a lie ,so i wouldn't believe what is said to be the norm 300 years ago.
well, you chose to believe romance much the same way. its just you don't realize that you have been indoctrinated by it and came to believe that is real.
i just go by my feelings ,been in a relationship for a while ,but the romance goes out the window after a few years,but i don't do anything to please anybody,they earn my respect not demand it,the whole idea of doing something to please someone sends shivers up my spine.
Well, now you start getting my point and admitting what I explain in the post.
How do you know?
Read this
http://www.ox.ac.uk/news/arts-blog/did-love-begin-middle-ages