It true i think that the media mostly give an idea of man's hero like strong until violent, the confuses strongness with violence often and that's confuse the border between them , in the past we accepted some attitudes and consid them normal, nowadays luckily this thing is change a bit, there are still people that do not understant the violent attitude and just consider it masculine but most of us recognize noew the difference between a violent man and a normal one, by the way i still have not seen Luke Cage so i spoilerd myself a little by reading your post, i am watching jessica jones first season actually ^^