Happiness and love are the same thing ,but we often get different ideas about them and different ways to feel it. Many people think that in order to be happy and to feel loved you need someone special in your life, to provide those feelings for you. When we don’t have that person we often feel sad, alone and incomplete. This is the concept of misunderstood happiness and love.
Love Grows Within
Lets go back to the time when we were little and used to play with our friends ,having the time of our lives and never had the thought of not having a significant other to stop you from having fun. You being alone doesn’t necessarily means we have to feel lonely . We just have to enjoy the little things around us and enjoy the love of the people around us, meaning family and friends.
Most of all, you have to ‘love yourself’ first.
“Explanation :”
I assume we all ‘crushed’ over someone before and the thought of being loved by that person made us want to fall in love even more. We want to be loved by the person we love first ,but realising it was not meant to be or not in common we felt heartbroken and started to ask ourselves : “why don’t they want me ?” Some make their way out of recplacements or a “friendzone”, others were afraid to try and get their heart broken even worse.
The love theory
Before you love someone make sure that u love yourself first. It’s not as easy like : “I love me”. Loving yourself is meaning it
Take your time to fall in love with the person you see in the mirror and love yourself the way you think you deserve to be loved. Carry yourself the way you think you deserve to be carried and ask yourself ‘what is it i want?’ Set the example of how to love you!
In the end no one knows better of than you. Not only will this attract the right person for you ,it will boost your self confidence and it will make you feel happy without really having a direct reason for it.
How Love works
Love shows us what love is and even gives us a piece of it and then takes it away leaving us to wonder. When we search for it makes sure that we feel everything that can hurt us when we don’t love the right way so we can appreciate it more when it comes back on our path. Any other form of pursuing love will fail!
for example
If you are broken and try to love someone you will only break that person too in the process of trying to heal you. Before you’re having another broken heart and eat ice cream while crying your tears out, ask yourself ‘why don’t you love yourself?’ Is it fear ?
You can’t force someone to love you and the problem with love is you can love who you want ,but so can they. Loving someone who doesn’t loves you back hurts.
The next time you say “I love you” make sure that you love yourself first and don’t worry about the time that love will come your way. Just make sure you appreciate it when it does, because love is not just a feeling. Love is a way to truly connect with a person mentally ,spiritually and physically. Love a true gift from the gods
Author : Rivaldo Mack Andrew
Edit by : MGSTAPPIE