Mooji explains one of the more difficult aspects of maintaining #self_awareness by not being pulled back into personhood. It might seem like an all or nothing thing like you know you've accomplished self awareness when you are not pulled back into personhood but that's not really the case. There might be a place that is attained naturally after dissolving the illusions of personhood that the things that use to effect you don't mean anything but that also might not happen.
The emphasis that Mooji seems to point to is that we do not stay preoccupied in thought about this or that point of view. Take a look if you have 10:58 and see what this means to you. If it resonates and triggers any considerations, please respond.