Your opinion could be spot on, you know. Steemit encourages honesty, whatever form that takes. Being critical is valued here. I like the way you're respectful and honest at the same time. That's what I strive for too. I think you may have a point. Being greedy might indeed be part of this issue. For me, the story of lying next to someone, and then going out to screw a man does seem greedy. Many people don't have love, so to squander it like that seems, well, greedy, or like a sex addiction. Addictions run together sometimes and when we hurt others and ourselves, well, it is problematic. That's where I draw the line: hurting others=addiction