This seems like a really good service. So many people may have stories they are less than proud to be associated with that are worth hearing. @stellabelle this was a really good idea.
As to this particular article. I encountered some similar experiences though NOT quite to this degree growing up with two alcoholic parents, an alcoholic uncle 8 years older than me (fried his liver by 24), and alcoholic grand mothers. One of my grand mothers fell dead off of a bar stool at age 48. I am 45 today.
I was VERY anti-alcohol for a big portion of my life due to these experiences.
I really am not any longer. I am now of the opinion we should legalize (or at least decriminalize) everything and focus on other ways to help people besides throwing them in jail for what MIGHT happen. Portugal did this over a decade ago and all drug usage (including Heroin) and across the board has dropped. I remember in High School (so we were all under the legal drinking age) virtually everyone DRANK, and managed to get alcohol even though it was illegal. In fact, since it was illegal they seemed to think they needed to binge drink any time they got a hold of some. I also knew a lot of people that smoked cigarettes that were not old enough to do that. Banning, and criminalizing does not actually seem to solve things. If people STEAL, HURT, KILL then charge them with theft, assault, or murder. We need to stop penalizing people for what MIGHT happen and instead focus on helping people.
wow! compelling story. i'm also for decriminalizing drugs.
Totally agree. Addiction needs to be approached not as a crime, but as a physiological/psychological problem that needs to be fixed. It saddens me to hear that the Secret Writer's family never tried addressing this more with the user and now casts him aside. Drug addiction sucks, and it does destroy lives, but what if it was compared to people who cannot control their eating disorders? If someone is addicted to food, should it be acceptable to look down on them and treat them as just a burden and a scar on your family?
Forgive and let live. You will be happier for it rather than forever condemning a family member's addiction you don't understand. I am not saying his actions were right, or kind, but guaranteed he doesn't look back on it and smile. He probably fought internally for years to try and get sober but couldn't break free and succumbed to the pressure of getting another fix. (there was a heroin addict in our family too)
agreed.