yes I know, but I add to it by saying that everybody knows that there is a point that makes these dichotomies irrelevant/non-existent, but still these dichotomies prevail (and then I say and here we disagree), that these dichotomies prevail not because of our lack of knowledge, but precisely because of our extra knowledge, that tells us that without this constraints (this is what you also say in response to anarchospace, when you say "language is important") that make frame of our everyday formality, too much chaos would seep into our reality.