[ESP-ING] Maternando por primera vez/ Mothering for the first time
¡Hola Abejitas bellas!
El caos de la maternidad es de lo que casi no se habla, y es que siempre se asume que en la maternidad solo hay cosas bonitas, pero la realidad es que no todo es tan simple. Definitivamente ser madre es algo maravilloso, eso no esta en discusión, es una experiencia MARAVILLOSA y en la misma medida llena de retos. Sin embargo, también es agotadora, desafiante y pone a prueba los límites de tu cordura. Y no esto no debemos olvidar mencionarlo, porque como madre debemos validar también nuestras emociones.
Es por ello que si hoy te sientes cansada, abrumada y confundida quiero decirte que es muy normal, eres humana y no estas sola. Tener a cargo un ser humano que apenas esta conociendo el mundo es un trabajo muy demandante, que pone a prueba todas nuestras capacidades.
Mientras se materna es super importante tener una red de apoyo, y no solo para ayudarnos en actividades físicas, como cuidar al bebé, cocinar, limpiar, lavar, entre otras, sino para apoyarnos emocionalmente, y es que este tipo de ayuda se suele olvidar y subestimar, y no tomamos en cuenta los sentimientos y emociones de la madre.
Si tu no tienes esta red de apoyo emocional, quiero que sepas que puedes contar conmigo, aquí estoy, para compartir contigo esta nueva experiencia. Podemos crear una bonita comunidad y espero crecer junto a ti con cada publicación.
Hoy escribo esto con el firme propósito de que no te sientas sola. Somos muchas las mujeres que nos enfrentamos los mismos retos cada día, es por ello que quiero que a través de mis escritos te sientas acompañada y juntas caminemos por este sendero lleno de amor y aprendizaje.
Sígueme y vivamos juntas este hermoso reto.
Creditos:
Imagenes editadas en Canva por mi.
Fotografías tomadas por Samsung A30.
Hello beautiful bees!
The chaos of motherhood is what is almost not talked about, and it is always assumed that in motherhood there are only beautiful things, but the reality is that not everything is so simple. Being a mother is definitely something wonderful, that is not up for discussion, it is a WONDERFUL experience and to the same extent full of challenges. However, it is also exhausting, challenging and tests the limits of your sanity. And we must not forget this, because as a mother we must also validate our emotions.
That is why if today you feel tired, overwhelmed and confused, I want to tell you that it is very normal, you are human and you are not alone. Being in charge of a human being who is barely getting to know the world is a very demanding job, which tests all of our capabilities.
While breastfeeding, it is super important to have a support network, and not only to help us in physical activities, such as taking care of the baby, cooking, cleaning, washing, among others, but to support us emotionally, and this type of help is often forgotten. and underestimate, and we do not take into account the mother's feelings and emotions.
A woman's life changes forever from the moment she becomes a mother, and like all big changes, at first everything is confusing and it is common to feel afraid. At this vulnerable time, a mother needs to feel accompanied and heard by her loved ones.
If you do not have this emotional support network, I want you to know that you can count on me, here I am, to share this new experience with you. We can create a beautiful community and I hope to grow with you with each publication.
Today I write this with the firm intention that you do not feel alone. There are many women who face the same challenges every day, that is why I want you to feel accompanied through my writings and together we walk along this path full of love and learning.
Follow me and let's live this beautiful challenge together.
Credits:
Translated with www.DeepL.com/Translator (free version)
Images edited in Canva by me.
Photographs taken by Samsung A30.