It says something about people and trust and I empathize with your problem for sure. My parents and others including friends and later a wife "fooled" me. That one event was planned with others in our town Wilson NY USA. And educators and clergy and doctors are involved there also. Not a good situation.

I could not recall it, the death event trauma made it impossible to recall for a long time. I was living with them later! And at SUNY Buffalo dorms, ugh.

A Canadian official Terry Lloyd discussed it with me and my employer who he found complicit. Lloyd alluded to this and fact I had been drowned (intentionally by my parents) as a child in Niagara Ontario Canada region as a child. He is right...