We all want different things and have different motivations. Imagine each soul had it's own custom heaven where things were adjusted just to be perfect for you... Everybody likes you, etc. etc.. but then it would be complete emptiness because none of it would matter. Perhaps it would be better if you didn't know any better. Ignorance is bliss they say, so perhaps heaven is knowing and experiencing nothing. It's probably best not to worry about it and just enjoy what you can, when you can, in the moment.