These are fairly common 'gotchas' used by atheists. It always makes me ask whether they're consistent in other aspects of their lives. It appears you're an anarchist, so you're a step ahead of most other atheists in your consistency.

My response to these criticisms is that you're missing the forest for the trees. There is a lot of context to these positions. I don't think it would be valuable to debate each and every point, but the easiest one I think to see would be the claim to stone a disobedient child. Thats really not much different than what the government does by locking away people in prison for victimless crimes. Surely you wouldn't think a parent is obligated to care for a lazy and alcoholic child for their entire lives? Stoning might not be what you would think appropriate, but hopefully you can see the need for some sort of separation/banishment.