What did you think was going to happen when you wait a month to text her and then turn it into a business thing?
This is 100% on you, and you're blaming the girl... Who almost certainly thought you just needed a maid and wanted you out of the house because you were hovering over her like a creep.
Lol, I'm not blaming the girl at all!! It was all on me of course, she just didn't like me but I kept on pursuing her because I'm an idiot and couldn't let go! In that last line, I'm just kidding, for sure I took a lot of shit from her and she wasn't a bitch, I was just trying to hang on. Maybe I should remove the last line..
Weird, I thought you did at one point... maybe I got confused by a couple of the comments. (Unless you did remove the last line and that's the one I thought meant you blamed her I guess?)
Not sure if she did/didn't like you, maybe not since she gave a handshake... but follow up right away next time. Not a month later, and for FSM's sake don't pay her money to see you! :)
I did remove the confusing last line. BUT I texted her twice that same night and the next day after our date, she just didn't like me but I couldn't take a hint. And YES, I was basically paying her to see me, I was a pathetic loser, no other way to put it!