Lolz this dualistic nature of the courting game is quite interesting to some and tiring to many like me.

I love the example you gave but that doesn't go quite well with what I can do. For me, once I give you the call and leave a message and you don't return the message, if i get to call one more time and you do not pick, I would just conclude you are not interested in me and so I will step aside .

Another thing that happens is when you get to collect the woman's number and don't call back. Days or weeks after, the woman would always Call back to know why you didn't call. It has always worked for my friends.the reason the woman calls is because, she doesn't really understand why you would take her number and refuse to call, you lower her self esteem by doing that and make her feel she isn't good enough. When she finally calls, you have gotten her interest and can now say all the sweet things you want to say to her.