Focusing on what we do have without denying what we are lacking is a great place to start working on creating and manifesting. Sometimes we think we want something that others have but it's not because we want it for ourselves but rather a social expectation that has been imposed on us by family or culture. I can give you many personal examples on that conflict! ;) Being honest with ourselves and admitting what we are missing and finding the gratitude and acceptance for what we do have and cannot instantly change without doing the awkward "home work" first is key to transformation. Blaming, shaming ourselves or others or being envious will move energy in the opposite direction of fulfillment and this is the conundrum; we have to face the attitudes that block us and the emotions that we have repressed or brushed aside or have been in the habit of judging them as "bad" However sometimes the hole in the soul is the only way light comes in so I have found working with that space as essential in discovering who we really are and what it is we are trying to create and manifest in the world. Anyway, I hope that offers something to the mix. This post is inspiring helpful and great! Thank you, Kim.