I was on a social media platform recently and saw too many cases of guys publicly turning down marriage proposals by their long time girlfriends.
This seems to be trending on the internet, but wait, is it wrong for a girl to propose to a guy?
What do you think? Are our ladies simply desperate, trying to be romantic, too daring or just being stupid?
This approach might work for some people, and totally fail for others. So before you make a fool of yourself in public think about it, rethink and rethink again.
Guys usually reveal if they want a future through their words and actions. So before popping the question, ask yourselves these self-searching questions about your boyfriends:
· Is he the indecisive type, that is never ready to take a relationship to the next level? And gives lame excuses for not making a commitment in his previous relationships?
· Is he the type that believes marriage complicates things? The media is responsible for promoting this idea; they make it look like the moment you are married, everything you once enjoyed gets stale and withers like a dying flower that once blossomed.
· Does he complain that you can never be Miss Right? And looks for every little opportunity to pick a fight and stay away for long, then the moment he needs to satisfy his needs, looks for you?
· Does he look for excuses to pick baseless fights and run out of the relationship as he pleases?
· Is he the type that keeps the options open? After all, we can’t leave all our eggs in a single basket, so has lots of side chics
· Or the old school kind of gentleman that expects the guy to always be in charge?
If you answer yes to any of these questions, please and please, save yourself the embarrassment of being turned down.
Why make yourself the victim, when it is a situation you can totally avoid.
To tell you the simple truth, if a guy has been dating you for years and has not made any form of commitment or has not shown any signs of making it any time soon, don’t be fooled my sister, He is probably designing the format of his wedding invitation with another girl.
It annoys me when I hear girls make lame excuses for their guys. Imagine someone dating a guy for donkey years and he has never once told her, he loves her not to talk of suggesting spending the rest of his life with her. Tell me, do you need a vision revealed before you know you should run.
If a guy loves you and wants you to be his Mrs, trust me, you will know. Love cannot be hidden, just like a bright light will always radiate.
If you have been courting for a while and are confused on which direction you guys are heading; rather than proposing in public as a first option, and appearing presumptuous and cheap when turned down, have a heart to heart conversation about your worries with your partner.
A guy who truly loves you, will be happy you asked and will never make the conversation awkward or make you feel like trash because you asked.
Remember love is kind, does not look for its own interest, does not become provoked, endures all things and ultimately, love never fails.
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