When looking at relationship between the sexes, one must avoid looking at intention but rather focus on the reality. Reality is dual while intention (desire) is singular in orientation, meaning one -sided ( no one desire’s good and evil, usually it is only good). Why the sexes battle is because the male is cautious of the female’s intention and the female is also cautious of the male’s intention. Intention is singular and usually self centred, so when opposites focus on each other’s intention they see the negative..for example an intention to get well denies the reality of sickness which the opposition in the medical field rely heavily on to be relevant and gainfully employed.. Men look at the intentions of women and see the negative aspects of women’s intentions because they are not women while women look at the intentions of men and see the negative aspects of their intentions because they are not men. There is nothing really wrong with the intention since everything has two sides to it. But because we are looking from the opposite sex we tend to see the negative aspect vividly until we become conscious of our percieved opposition. In truth the attraction between the sexes is a mild form of jealousy.