This is so true! People always try to please others whenever they should focus on themselves first. Being confident in yourself is the first step to making the most out of your life. If you're confident in yourself and respect yourself, other people will do the same. If you focus on your goals and what you want in life, the rest will come. Love and relationships are definitely important but they will crumble if they don't have a strong foundation. Make sure you have everything set in your life, then when you find that right person, it will all fall into place :)