So this morning am gonna be telling how to know when your man is seeing other ladies.it's actually not quite hard to know so if you see these signs,girl you have to go.
Communication:He becomes a very lame communicator. He won't tell you what bothers him and he will take forever to reply your text why? Cause its difficult to reply more than 5 ladies at a time. He will be distant like you guys are strangers sitting in the park. He will no longer tell you about work or his annoying boss or things about his day. This is usually the first sign.
Change of plans: He will constantly make plans and then change them at last minute. He might agree to go with you to your sisters wedding but will change plans and give silly excuses. When he keeps doing this,watch out cause he is obviously seeing someone else.
Committment: He will stop being committed to you. When you say something about the future,he will always seem unsure and maybe tell you something like "lets take things slow". He won't be sure about the future with you. Sister girl when you see this sign,you need to get out of there immediately cause why are you even in this in the first when you have no future with him.
Lies: That man will lie about everything. You will start hearing lies everytime he offends you instead of the simple truth. Things like "no baby my car broke down" "i had a busy day at work that's why i couldn't meet you for lunch" "i would have love to but u have to work late today". Oh he's working alright but no longer on you.This is usually the most obvious sign and if you can't see it,i think you should get your eyes checked.
- Phone freak: This sign usually comes with the communication problem. He will develop a new addiction to his phone and would take it anywhere. Girl he would take it to the toilet if he had to just to keep you away from it. Anytime who hold his phone,he would and put up defenses like "don't you understand privacy?" Privacy? In a relationship that's more than two years.This is a definite sign that he is keeping things from you which is wrong if he really loves you.
Mood: Everytime you tell him he's got a problem, instead of calmly discussing it with you he would get angry and say you don't trust him. He will turn it on you and make you look like its you who have a problem. He would use this defense mechanism because he doesn't want you to find out about other women because once he tries to reason with you he might find himself telling the truth indirectly and he won't want that to happen. The question that usually triggers this outburst is "are you cheating on me?". A man that's not cheating will might feel hurt but won't lash out at you. Know the difference.
Family and friends: You might know he's mum and maybe few of his friends but a man that is cheating will not take you home to see mama cause he has no plans of the future with. He would introduce you to his friends as his woman but they all know the truth.
These are the most obvious sign you will see to know.
Good morning from Nigeria
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