😴My dear Nainaz..I'm so sorry to know your sons relationships have come to the end for now. I remember their happy photos, and they look fine together. 7 years is a great term, and I do understand you when you say you take her as your daughter. I had the same situation. My ex-relationships (before my marriage) went to the end after 5 years. It is a long term too. We had strong love, we planned to be together forever, I dreamed about kids, marriage, he was very close to my parents, they took him as their son. Then something went wrong, I made mistakes, he made them too, and love couldn't overcome all this sh*t, and I left him. Soon I started relationships with another man who was ready to get all stars for me - he is my hubby now. Breaking down 5-years relationships was very hard. Very very hard. And I was surprised that it was hard for my parents too. They took him as their son, and they couldn't forget him long after it. We don't comminucate with him for many years, but my parents still are interested in his life, they are glad to hear some news about him, and my Mom even regrets she didn't try to unite us. Though it would be wrong, because it had to be our decision, not hers. So I do understand your pain and worries. 7 years is a long term for their age, and they both are lost now. It seems to them they can't move on together, but it's extremely hard to start a new life and new love too. They are native souls already, they went together a great piece of their lives. But all relatinships can have critical times, a crisis, and 7 years is one of them by the way. It's normal. It's time to evaluate what they had, and whether they are ready to move on separately. They just need time. Your question to her was right, and she must think about it. They both must. Now it seems to them they can't live with mistakes they both made, but time is the best advisor. Their hearts will promt them the right decision, they just need to FEEL, not to THINK. Don't worry, my dear, your son must be wise, like his Mom is, he is just too young, but still wise, and his girl is the same, I think, if you love her so much, so just leave the situation for now, I am sure the Universe will show the right way😍
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Ohh my dear, I feel very emotional reading your comment. I can understand it must have been so very difficult for you to move on but then you had to because life stops for no one, and as you rightly said it's a matter of time and gradually what is meant for both of them will happen. At this point of time I am not making any decisions, I am just wanting to give them a good perspective so that they can make their right decisions and not be in any emotional turmoil after making their decisions. The good thing is as of now both of them are still open to consider things but yes they need space for now to think through and that is very justified. True, after all they have to make their final decisions and I am not going to influence them in that. I am feeling good reading your comment. Anyways you know these days Hive also has been giving me a emotional drain, and hence I am a little cut off. Thank you for the comfort.