Oh, I don't judge people for it. They can do what they want imo.

The whole "its a social construct" thing is used as moral jusitfacation for why its ok to do things the person saying it disagrees with. im not saying you are doing that. but the people blaming things on social constructs are, you can tell when you ask them to elaborate on the statements they make about the things they do. Its all mental gymnastics imo.

You said "women, have to change ourselves just to keep a cheater" so I thought you were talking about cheaters.