Ohh my dear, I feel very emotional reading your comment. I can understand it must have been so very difficult for you to move on but then you had to because life stops for no one, and as you rightly said it's a matter of time and gradually what is meant for both of them will happen. At this point of time I am not making any decisions, I am just wanting to give them a good perspective so that they can make their right decisions and not be in any emotional turmoil after making their decisions. The good thing is as of now both of them are still open to consider things but yes they need space for now to think through and that is very justified. True, after all they have to make their final decisions and I am not going to influence them in that. I am feeling good reading your comment. Anyways you know these days Hive also has been giving me a emotional drain, and hence I am a little cut off. Thank you for the comfort.