I asked hubby about carrying a bag for a lady and he says it's no big deal at all. I think it's all about the man's self confidence and composure. My husband is absolutely comfortable in his own skin and can carry any lady's bag. On the other hand, I have friends who'll never carry a lady's bag because they feel it would reflect badly on their image.

Miss Pretty needs to be decisive. What does she want exactly? Does she want to obey her parents or follow her heart? What needs to be done is totally dependent on her choices.

I love the way you love these people @oluwatobiloba. I doubt I'll be able to exercise the kind of patience you exercise with them. Your kind is rare!